Aid and Attendance is one of the more overlooked benefits in the VA system, in part because it isn't a stand-alone program. It's an enhancement to VA pension, and if a veteran or surviving spouse doesn't already know to look for it, it's easy to go years without ever applying.

The benefit exists for people who need help with the basic activities of daily living: dressing, bathing, eating, or protecting themselves from the hazards of their own environment. For elderly veterans and widows managing on a fixed income, it can meaningfully increase a monthly pension. But reaching it requires clearing a base eligibility hurdle first, which is where a lot of otherwise-eligible people stop looking.